I’m not often livid, but right now I am.

My Daughter’s father has just sent me a message that was sent to him on Snapchat, of my daughter and her cousin’s at a birthday party. Another parent at the party, took a picture/snap whatever! Of my child and her cousins (her child is not in the photo) and posted them to her snapchat, but not satisfied with sufficiently overstepping the mark, she then sent the snap via a private message to my daughter’s dad to enquire as to whether or not this was his daughter… What The Actual FUDGE?!!!

I do not know this woman.

She does not know me.

She does not know my daughter.

Other than following him online she does not know my daughter’s dad.

She does not know my niece or her mother or father.

But she felt it was ok, to post a photograph taken at a family party of children she does not know and whose parents she does not know, on her social media.

There is so much more that I want to say about this, but I AM LIVID!! And I can not form the words right now. I will follow up when I can see more than red…

I know social media is oxygen at the moment, but as parents surely we ask other parents before posting their children? Especially children who’s parents you DO NOT KNOW!


6 Responses
  • Mel.Dee
    September 27, 2016

    That is Level 100 of overstepping your boundaries. (Stalker type ISH) when it comes to the children I can’t tolerate that. You can’t even get into the mindset of these people. Because it would turn you fool. You & the father never post babygirl on any social media like that. She Is Wrong, Wrong Wrong & if she can’t see that….. (In My past life would have dragged her)….. I know you & her Father will deal with this correct!!!

  • Sareta
    September 26, 2016

    Fully out of order! 1. I ask permission, or I’ll mask them out or put an emoji on their face lol. Why are people so nosy? I would be livid too TBH.

  • Juan
    September 26, 2016

    Errr… I can’t even begin to understand this scenario. Was she at the party? What would she have done if she’d found out that he was not the father? Some random man would then have your kid’s photo? Why does she think this is her business? I’m just flabbergasted like my eyebrow’s are now permanently hunched in confusion. W T F

    • Motherhood Reconstructed
      September 26, 2016

      If we only had the answers! *shakes head continuously*

  • Cee
    September 26, 2016

    Agree wholeheartedly! That is a complete liberty. Probably doesn’t help to settle the red mist, but that’s my opinion x

    • Motherhood Reconstructed
      September 26, 2016

      Thank you for your comment. Still dumbfounded by the absolute lack of boundaries xx

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